Because we live in a fallen world, we face the realities of hurt and offense. Harboring unforgiveness is like drinking poison and expecting another person to die; it does much greater harm to us than the person we refuse to forgive. Offense is the bait that the enemy uses to lure us into bondage, and it causes us to create walls. Walls may keep out the bad stuff, but they also keep out the good. With walls around our hearts, we not only protect ourselves from pain and rejection but from experiencing love and life-giving relationships. We think that it is up to us to protect our hearts, but the truth is, God never meant for this to be our responsibility; it is His.
Reasons we may struggle to forgive:
We have the wrong idea of forgiveness. Remember, forgiveness is not minimizing the offense or forgetting what happened. Forgiveness doesn’t necessarily bring reconciliation. Forgiveness is something that happens in our hearts, giving us freedom. Reconciliation is a two way street and requires repentance, the desire for restitution, and rebuilding of trust from both parties.
We don’t think it’s fair to let them off the hook. We reason in our hearts that they don’t deserve forgiveness. But God doesn’t hand out forgiveness based on merit—and thank goodness, because none of us deserve forgiveness! Since we have been forgiven so very much, we should extend what we have received to others. The forgiven forgive! We don’t think we can do it. In our own human power, we may not be strong enough to forgive the great wrongs done against us, but we are empowered by the supernatural strength of God. It is important to remember that forgiveness is a choice, not a feeling. It is a choice that we have to make daily.
It is impossible to forgive others for their offenses until we receive forgiveness ourselves. If we struggle to forgive others, chances are we have not fully grasped what God has done for us. We have been given total forgiveness for past, present, and future sin. It is not that God forgets our sins, but rather, He chooses to remember our sin no more because He wants to be in relationship with us.
It’s often difficult for us to receive God’s forgiveness. The enemy loves to remind us of the mistakes we made in the past because guilt keeps us stuck, unable to move forward into the future that God has planned for us. We feel that we have to repent for our past over and over, but these thoughts come solely from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil. We don’t have to earn forgiveness. It is a free gift we can receive by faith. When our past comes to mind, we can defeat the enemy by knowing and speaking truth from the Word of God. Forgiveness takes courage and strength, but it leads us to pathways of righteousness where we can live free from guilt and shame! How do we keep our hearts pure and unoffended? We must recognize our own imperfections, focus on the real enemy (the devil, not people), and receive the forgiveness and love of God. Because it is a daily choice to forgive, remember the steps for walking out forgiveness with those who have offended you: pray for them, bless them, and do good to them.
Application from Week 6:
“He is so rich in kindness and grace that He purchased our freedom with the blood of his Son and forgave our sins.” EPHESIANS 1:7
Because we live in a fallen world, we face the realities of hurt and offense. The words and deeds of others can wound us to the core in indescribable ways. Things like neglect, abuse, violence, betrayal, and cruel remarks can cause bitterness and resentment to infiltrate our hearts, and we, perhaps even unintentionally, begin to harbor unforgiveness.
An unforgiven offense is like an arrow dipped in poison. The offense slashes through our defenses and hurts us in the moment, but the after- math of unforgiveness is like a poison that remains long after the event takes place. It seeps into our lives, tainting our thoughts and clouding our vision. If left unchecked, it will eventually penetrate our hearts and paralyze our ability to live, to love, and to be loved. Harboring unforgiveness is like drinking poison and expecting another person to die; it does much greater harm to us than the person we refuse to forgive.
Write Proverbs 18:19
Offense is the bait that the enemy uses to lure us into bondage. When we become offended, we become unyielding. Think about a city surrounded by walls. The walls’ purpose is to protect the city. We use this same thinking to protect ourselves, placing walls around our hearts. People may have hurt us once, but we will not allow them to do it again. But what works for a city of stone does not necessarily work in the same way for a heart of flesh and blood. Walls may keep out the bad stuff, but they also keep out the good. With walls around our hearts, we not only protect ourselves from pain and rejection but from experiencing love and life-giving relationships. We think it is up to us to protect our hearts, but the truth is, God never meant for this to be our responsibility; it is His.
Ask Yourself: Am I harboring unforgiveness?
Unforgiveness holds us in bondage and keeps us from living in the Tree of Life. So why is it so hard to forgive others? Here are a few possible explanations.
The first reason we don’t offer forgiveness easily to others is that we have an incorrect definition of forgiveness. To truly understand what it means to forgive someone, we need to start by learning what forgiveness is not.
The second reason we don’t offer forgiveness to those who have hurt us is that it does not seem fair to let them off the hook. We reason in our minds that they don’t deserve forgiveness. But God doesn’t use “fairness” logic (or doesn’t hand out forgiveness based on merit)—and thank goodness, because none of us deserve forgiveness!
Read Matthew 18:21–35. Through this parable, Jesus explains the profound and undeserved forgiveness we receive as believers. What instruction does Jesus give us regarding forgiveness?
Jesus told Peter that he needed to forgive 490 times a day. That’s once every three minutes! Considering how fast our minds often race, that number doesn’t seem too farfetched, does it? In the Parable of the Unforgiving Debtor, the first man owed the king millions of dollars, but when he begged for mercy, the king canceled his debt. As sinners, we too owed a great debt that we could not pay. But God showed us great mercy and, by the blood of Jesus, paid our debt in full. We have been forgiven much.
The second man owed the first man a debt of a few thousand dollars. While this is not an insignificant amount of money, the first man was forgiven a much greater debt. In light of the incredible mercy he was shown by the king, he should have readily shown mercy to the second man as well. Since we have been forgiven so very much, we should extend what we have received to others. The forgiven must forgive!Ask Yourself: In light of all the sin for which I have been forgiven, can I release those who have wronged me? Would I trade my forgiveness from God for the right to hold someone accountable for their offense toward me?
The third reason we don’t forgive is that we don’t think we have the power and strength to do so. This is the voice of the enemy. We must recognize and silence the voice of our adversary. In our own human power, we may not be strong enough to forgive the great wrongs done against us, but we don’t have to walk through this Christian life in our own strength. We are empowered by the supernatural strength of God.Write 2 Corinthians 12:9
In this passage, Paul is saying something incredible happens in the midst of his struggles—the power of Christ is at work! Forgiveness does not turn us into doormats. On the contrary, forgiveness makes us victorious.
Forgiveness is a choice, not a feeling, and it is a choice we have to make daily. We prefer to wait until we feel like forgiving, but if our lives are dictated by our feelings, we will always live according to the reality of this world. God is inviting you into a new reality.
If we dare to believe God, and choose first to forgive, our feelings will follow our decision. Then, instead of merely “reacting” to what happens to us, we can choose to live in the Tree of Life. Remember: Choices lead, feelings follow.
We forgive others in response to the great forgiveness we’ve been shown by Jesus. Read Isaiah 1:18–19. This passage says that our sins were scarlet, and Jesus made them white as snow; they were crimson, and He made them as wool. Note that the end of the Scripture says “if you obey me.” Forgiveness is not a suggestion, but a requirement from our loving Father for our benefit. The forgiven forgive.
“Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.” EPHESIANS 4:31–32
Romans 5:6 says that while we were still sinners, God sent Jesus to die for us. When it comes to understanding forgiveness, this is critical: It is impossible to forgive others of their offenses until we receive forgiveness for ourselves. If we struggle with forgiveness, chances are we have not fully grasped what God has done for us. We have been given total forgiveness for past, present and future sin. It is not that God forgets our sins, but, rather, He chooses to remember our sin no more. He chooses to never mention our sin again—ever. Why does He do this? Because God desperately wants to be in relationship with us.
Write Isaiah 43:25
An offense is something we consider to be a violation of what we think is right and fair. We need to understand that the enemy uses offense to hold us captive and keep us from moving forward in the freedom that God has for us. The word offense comes from the Greek word “scandalon,” which means “the bait.” In Old Testament times, when someone wanted to trap an animal, they would cover a pit with branches and place a piece of flesh (scandalon) on top of the branches to lure the animal into the trap.
Satan uses offense as bait to lure us into a trap of unforgiveness and bondage. By holding on to offense, we think we are trapping the person who hurt us, but in reality, we are the ones who are ensnared.
Below is a list of five common snares that the enemy uses to lure us into unforgiveness. Notice that Jesus Himself also suffered these offenses.
Jesus was fully God and fully man. He allowed Himself to be tempted in every way that we are today because He wanted us to know that no matter what we face, He has been there—and He has overcome.
When we are…
Remember Jesus was…
To get a better understanding of why Jesus had to suffer in the way He did, read Hebrews 2:17–18 in The Message translation:
“That’s why He had to enter into every detail of human life. Then, when He came before God as high priest to get rid of the people’s sins, He would have already experienced it all Himself—all the pain, all the testing—and would be able to help where help was needed.”
It was important for Jesus to experience all of these offenses in a human body so that He could understand every struggle we would encounter. Now, when we come to Him with our hurts, He can honestly reply, “I understand. I went through that, too.” Not only is Jesus now able to empathize with our pain, but because He went through these trials, He was able to set an example for how we should respond when we suffer at the hands of others. At His death, Jesus asked the Father to forgive the very ones who cursed Him, who nailed His hands and feet to the cross, saying, “They don’t know what they are doing.” (Luke 23:34) In reality, they knew exactly what they were doing: killing a man they hated and making sure He felt every ounce of their malice. Jesus knew his oppressors were blinded by hate, but He chose to view their actions with a heavenly perspective. Offenses will undoubtedly come, so we must arm ourselves with the same thinking of Jesus.
Our primary prayer in relationships should be that the Lord would allow us to see the other person through the eyes of Jesus. If we begin to see others as God sees them, we will find ourselves loving people the way Jesus did, regardless of what they do or don’t do to us.
How do we keep our hearts pure and unoffended? Consider these three simple statements: Recognize our own imperfection.
We will never have to forgive others for more than God has forgiven us.
Write Romans 3:23
Write Matthew 10:8
Focus on the real enemy.
People are not our enemy—the devil is. Jesus made a choice to see the people with the hammer and nails as unknowing participants in satan’s agenda of darkness. If it is true that hurting people hurt people, then the guilty have their own story as well. Our approach should be to love people and hate the devil.
Write 1 Peter 5:8
Receive the love of God.
This will give us the capacity to love people. If we continually struggle to love people, it may be because we have not fully received the love of God.
Write 1 John 4:10
The Bible’s steps for walking out forgiveness are countercultural (the opposite of mainstream society) and counterintuitive (different than what would be expected). But if you follow them, they will change your life. Our way of thinking and God’s way of thinking are not the same. Read 1 Corinthians 1:25–28 (NIV) to gain the proper perspective on submitting to God’s way of doing things:
“For the foolishness of God is wiser than human wisdom, and the weakness of God is stronger than human strength. Brothers and sisters, think of what you were when you were called. Not many of you were wise by human standards; not many were influential; not many were of noble birth. But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong. God chose the lowly things of this world and the despised things—and the things that are not—to nullify the things that are.”
Society tells us to return evil for evil or, at the very least, isolate the people who hurt us so they cannot do so again. But Jesus said in order to have different results, we have to respond differently.Write Matthew 5:43-44
For some of us, it is all we can do not to talk negatively about the people who have wronged us. But Jesus asks us to go a step further; He asks us to bless them. The word bless means to “speak well of.” Again, this is not something that is demonstrated in today’s culture. Listen to what the Bible says:
“But to you who are willing to listen, I say, love your enemies! Do good to those who hate you. Bless those who curse you. Pray for those who hurt you.” LUKE 6:27–28Write Romans 12:14
This requires a change in our way of thinking. It is not that we are repaying good for evil; it is that we have made the decision to do only good to others. So whether someone is serving or attacking us, our response should be to treat them well, as the Word says to do.Ask yourself: Are there people in my life who I have not released to the Lord? Am I trying to get revenge for their offense?
Below is a declaration based on Romans 12:17–21. Read it out loud.
I do not repay evil for evil. I am careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. If it is possible, as far as it depends on me, I will live at peace with everyone. I will not take revenge, but leave room for God’s wrath, because God has promised He will handle it. On the contrary: If my enemy is hungry, I will feed him; if he is thirsty, I will give him something to drink. I will not be overcome by evil, but I will overcome evil with good.
This is a simple prayer of forgiveness you can use to release anyone who has offended you. Insert the name or names of those you feel you need to forgive, and say the words out loud. “Lord, instead of loving, I have resented certain people, and I have unforgiveness in my heart. Forgive me for my sin of holding on to offense. I ask you, Lord, to give me the power to forgive those who have hurt me. I release them to you now. Give me the strength to pray for them, bless them, and want the best for them. Thank you for breaking these chains off of my life. In the name of Jesus I pray, Amen.”
Getting past your past may be the biggest obstacle you face. Every time you seem to be making progress, that old movie reel of the sinful things you have done begins to play in your mind. Peace and freedom slip away as your past rises up to remind you of your failure. You think forgiveness is for other people but not for you because you have done too many horrible things and it’s just too late.
You may be surprised to know that these feelings are actually common for many believers. The enemy loves to remind us of the mistakes we made in the past because guilt keeps us stuck, unable to move forward into the future that God has planned for us. We feel we must repent for our past over and over again as we are continually bombarded by painful memories that we are powerless to change. These thoughts come solely from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil.
Ask Yourself: Am I constantly reminding myself of past failures? Does the sin of my past continue to bother me even though I have asked God to forgive me?
When our past rears its ugly head, there are three ways we usually respond:
We try to bury it.
Have you ever heard the phrase, “You’ve got to bury the past”? Well, the fact is, you can’t. It will find its way to the surface at some point. We hear that time heals all wounds, but that is also untrue. Only the Holy Spirit can heal. Concealing the past never works. Proverbs 28:13 (NIV) says, “Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy.” The Bible also says that confessing our sins and praying for one another actually helps us find healing and wholeness. ( James 5)
We beat ourselves up.
Some of us live in the land of regret. We dwell on the “if only” scenarios from our past. But “if only” is a trap. We cannot change the past and the enemy uses the notion to torment us. King David knew this type of grief. He committed adultery with his own soldier’s wife and then had the soldier killed when she became pregnant with his child. When the prophet Nathan confronted David, he repented and cried out to God. In Psalm 38:4–8, David says, “My guilt over- whelms me—it is a burden too heavy to bear. My wounds fester and stink because of my foolish sins. I am bent over and racked with pain. All day long I walk around filled with grief. A raging fever burns within me, and my health is broken. I am exhausted and completely crushed. My groans come from an anguished heart.” David shows us that unwillingness to forgive ourselves can even cause physical pain in addition to emotional pain.
We blame others.
This tactic has been used since the days of Adam and Eve. When God asked Adam why he disobeyed, Adam blamed Eve. Eve’s response was to blame the serpent. (Genesis 3:12–13) We must take responsibility for our actions, then repent and move forward.
Since these are unhealthy ways to deal with our past, what is the best way to face it? We need to look to the Word and agree with God’s perspective on our past. God says when we ask Jesus into our hearts, our old life vanishes and we become a new person. You may know this in your head, but is it your reality?
“Anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun!” CORINTHIANS 5:17
The Apostle Paul had a terrible past of persecuting and killing Christians, but he understood this truth, and it allowed him to accept the grace of God and move forward in freedom.
“Even though I was once a blasphemer and a persecutor and a violent man, I was shown mercy because I acted in ignorance and unbelief. The grace of our Lord was poured out on me abundantly, along with the faith and love that are in Christ Jesus. Here is a trustworthy saying that deserves full acceptance: Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners—of whom I am the worst.” 1 TIMOTHY 1:13–15 NIV
Getting Past the Past
To let our past die, we must change our way of thinking. The old way of thinking doesn’t line up with God’s Word, so it doesn’t produce life. We must accept what the Bible says and renew our minds with the truth so that we, like Paul, can walk in freedom. In order to walk in freedom from our past, we need to do the following:
Stop trying to earn forgiveness.
Most people don’t understand the gospel. They think that if they work hard to be good more days than they are bad, they get to go to heaven. That’s not true. The price has been paid. Forgiveness is received, not earned. If we think we have to earn forgiveness from God, we will make others earn forgiveness from us.
Here is the gospel:
“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast.” EPHESIANS 2:8–9 NIV
Receive God’s forgiveness by faith.
It will free our hearts and allow us to forgive others.
Defeat every lie with the truth.
It would be great if once we had received forgiveness, we never thought about our past again. The truth is, the enemy will continue to bring up our past every day. He will wait for weak moments in our lives and whisper our failures to us. We have to resist him every day. Remember, he is the accuser of Christians and the “Father of Lies.” (Revelation 12:10) We defeat him by knowing and speaking the truth.
Write 1 Corinthians 1:30
Write Romans 8:28
God never said that forgiveness would be easy. In fact, following the instructions in His Word takes courage and strength. But His instructions work. They will lead us into pathways of righteousness where we can live again, free from the ghosts of our past. No more guilt, no more hiding, no more shame-free.
It takes faith to believe that these words are true, but if you do, they will change your life. Trust that God’s Word is true. Believe that you have been made new and clean and that He can and will make you whole again. Life as you know it will never be the same. As you begin to see yourself the way God sees you, you will begin to see others differently. You’ll find yourself with open hands, releasing offenses, and receiving abundant life. You will be living in the Tree of Life.Print Lesson
When it comes to life with Christ, the act of giving up control to Him is actually the beginning of our freedom. A life of surrender requires trust, and that trust is developed in the context of relationship. Jesus left heaven and came to earth; He felt hunger, hurt, and rejection; He was beaten and crucified and three days later rose from the grave—all so He could prove His love, earn our trust, and be in relationship with us.
If you want to get to know God better, you will need to do what you would do when getting to know a friend: spend time with Him. This doesn’t have to look a certain way. The key is to invite Him into your life. The Lord will reveal Himself to you as you do things that feed your spirit, like studying the Word, seeking Him in prayer, and building relationships with like-minded friends. God’s way of thinking is much different—and much greater—than ours. As a believer, the only way you can live the abundant life God has for you is to fully surrender your life to Him and adopt His way of doing things.
God wants to make our lives smoother by being Lord over every- thing. It is only when He is in control that we can walk in spiritual order. Anything we decide to hold on to becomes our responsibility to maintain. However, if we surrender every area of our lives to Him, He will partner with us on this journey and bring us safely to our final destination. When we surrender everything to Him, we will find that His path to the fulfill- ment of our desires is better than we could have imagined on our own.
Encourage your participants to think about the areas of their life that need to be surrendered to the Lord. Have them pray about those areas this week, and encourage them to choose a Scripture to declare over each area.
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” PROVERBS 3:5–6 NIV
The word surrender brings to mind many pictures, perhaps a white flag waving atop a surrounded military fort or a troop of outnumbered soldiers with their hands raised. We typically associate surrender with defeat. However, when it comes to life with Christ, the act of giving up control to Him is actually the beginning of our freedom. A life of surrender requires trust, and that trust is developed in the context of relationship. Would you allow a stranger to care for your children or watch over your home while you were on vacation? Of course not. Trust is earned, so until you have an understanding of a person’s character, it isn’t possible to trust him or her with something of value.
In order to surrender our lives to God, we must believe that He is good and is worthy of our trust. For many of us, that is easier said than done, and it is often due to doubt or disappointment from past experiences with people or churches. Our hearts can become weary and hardened by such things, but there is hope! We can begin to trust Jesus when we understand what He did for us. He left heaven and came to earth; He felt hunger, hurt, and rejection; He was beaten and crucified, and three days later rose from the grave—all so He could prove His love, earn our trust, and be in relationship with us.
Write Psalm 119:68
If you want to get to know God better, you will need to do what you would do when getting to know a friend: spend time with Him. This doesn’t have to look a certain way. The key is to invite Him into your life. The Lord will reveal Himself to you as you do things that feed your spirit, like studying the Word, seeking Him in prayer, and building relationships with like-minded friends.
Write James 4:8
Sometimes, God’s way of doing things doesn’t make sense to us. His way of thinking is much different—and much greater—than ours. Though we don’t always understand, when we make the choice to trust and obey Him, we set ourselves up for success.
Picture this: You’re going to take a road trip to see the Grand Can- yon, and you plan to drive your car—but you don’t have a smartphone, map, or compass for the trip. Your best friend not only has all of these items, but also knows every pothole, gas station, and restaurant along the way. Wouldn’t you want him to come along? What if he has a single condition for joining you: to be in the driver’s seat? There’s the dilemma. It’s hard to hand over the steering wheel because it involves giving up control. However, as a believer, the only way you can live the abundant life that God has for you is to fully surrender your life to Him and adopt His way of doing things.
Ask Yourself: What areas of my life have I not surrendered to God? Am I having a hard time trusting Him with those areas?
God wants to make our lives smoother by being Lord over everything. It is only when He is in control that we can walk in spiritual order. Anything we decide to hold on to becomes our responsibility to maintain. However, if we surrender every area of our lives to Him, He will partner with us on this journey and bring us safely to our final destination.
Write Luke 14:33
Man was created to be a worshipper and we will worship what we value most. In Exodus 20:3-4, God told the Israelites not to place any gods before Him or make any kind of idol. We may think of an idol as a carved statue, but an idol is also anything we desire more than God.
If we want to walk in spiritual order, God must be first. Materialism is a common culprit of misplaced priorities in our lives. When material things become most important to us, we find ourselves consumed by pressure and stress as we strive to gain more. Materialism gives the enemy an opening to attack our minds and emotions with incessant thoughts about what we have and what we want. The more we have, the more it demands our attention.
Read the following verses. What happens when we give things and money the place of priority in our lives?
Ask yourself: Is there anything in my life that is more important than God?
Read the following verses: Psalm 62:10, Hebrews 13:5 and Luke 12:22–31. Ask the Holy Spirit to show you how these passages apply to your life.
“Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and He will give you everything you need.” MATTHEW 6:33
Did you know that relationships can come between you and God? It can be relationships with family, friends, co-workers, pastors, church mem- bers, neighbors, and even enemies. But whether good or bad, they can become more important to us than our relationship with the Lord.
Read Genesis 22:1–18. In this passage, Abraham faces an inconceiv- able situation. He has waited decades for a big promise to be fulfilled— the promise that he would be the father of nations. In Abraham’s old age, God blesses him with a son, Isaac. The child grows and so does Abra- ham’s joy. And then, one day, God tells Abraham to sacrifice the boy on an altar. Surely Abraham had questions. He loved his son very much— but he also trusted God.
The Bible tells us Abraham rose early the next morning to obey God’s command. In other words, he did not try to delay or find a way out. There was no hesitation in his conduct. In a great act of faith, he placed Isaac on the altar and would have followed through with the command if an angel had not stopped him. God saw Abraham’s willingness to obey, provided an alternate sacrifice, and blessed him with a family heritage unlike any other. His descendants would be as numerous as the stars in the sky and the sand on the shores.
We often insist on having our own way in relationships, not realizing that our attempts to control them may be detrimental. Not only are our relationships unlikely to flourish when we try to control them, they can take our focus off of God and take inappropriate priority in our lives.
As was true for Abraham, God’s blessing can flow into our relationships if we readily surrender them to Him.
Ask Yourself: Do I have a relationship that has come between God and me?
Another principle that will allow us to have healthy relationships is staying free of offense. Our most difficult relationships to surrender may be the ones in which there is offense and unforgiveness.
Consider this: What if you gave up your “right to be right” and instead chose to be unoffended, no matter the situation?
There are many areas of our lives that we need to surrender to God. These include plans, goals, pleasures, ambitions, hurts, the future, the past, selfishness, ego, sin, pride, physical appearance, lust, anger, fear, and health. We must also surrender unforgiveness, because holding on to an offense is essentially saying that we have a right to withhold grace from someone. This type of pride is an idol that will cause a wedge between God and us.
Surrendering does not mean we no longer have goals or ambitions. On the contrary, God is the One who puts desires in our hearts. When we surrender everything to Him, we will find that His path to the fulfillment of those desires is better than we could have imagined on our own. We simply have to submit to God’s will and join with Him in His plans for us.
Ask Yourself: Have I surrendered my past, present, and future to God? Do I trust that His way is better than my own?
This video sets up the second section of the curriculum, which includes surrender, forgiveness, and the power of the spoken word. The condition of your heart is revealed by outward symptoms (giving in to temptation, depression, anger, lust, etc.). When these symptoms are present, there is a deeper issue, and it is associated with the heart. There are four blockages of the heart: selfishness, bitterness, rejection, and evil thoughts. In order to remove the blockage of selfishness, we must actively surrender our lives to God. Bitterness occurs and blocks our hearts when we hold on to a hurt caused by another person, and we must live a life of forgiveness to remove the blockage.
A seed of rejection planted in our lives may also cause a blockage, and we can reverse this curse of rejection by discovering and receiving God’s acceptance of us through the power of His Word. Evil thoughts result when we allow ourselves to be exposed to unholy things or speak lies over ourselves. These evil thoughts need to be replaced with truth from God’s Word. We need to take steps to remove these blockages from our hearts in order to live in freedom. Invite the Holy Spirit to show you any ways in which your heart is blocked. Invite Him to change you. Invite the Him to fill you so that your heart will be full of only what is good.
“My son, pay attention to what I say; turn your ear to my words. Do not let them out of your sight, keep them within your heart; for they are life to those who find them and health to one’s whole body. Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” PROVERBS 4:20–23 NIV
“…The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” 1 SAMUEL 16:7 NIV
I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh. And I will put my Spirit in you and move you to follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws. EZEKIEL 36:26–27 NIV
Invite the Holy Spirit to
“Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.” PSALM 139:23–24 NIV
Invite the Holy Spirit to
“Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Do not cast me from your presence or take your Holy Spirit from me.” PSALM 51:10–11 NIV
Invite the Holy Spirit to
“Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit.” EPHESIANS 5:18 NIV
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