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God, Help My Marriage Part 3

Building A Dream Marriage

Jonathan Stockstill

January 21, 2018

Three Essentials to a Dream Marriage

1. I am committed to CHANGE.

  • Change to a biblical view of marriage.
  • Ephesians 5:22-25 (NLT)

Reasons people resist change towards biblical roles in marriage

  • Fear of going first
  • Society’s influence
  • Lack of belief

Commit to changing the selfish things that cause the marriage to feel strained.

2. I am committed to meeting my spouse’s NEEDS.

Four needs of a woman

  • Security (sacrifice, admiration, faithfulness, and provision make a woman feel secure)
  • Nonsexual affection
  • Open communication
  • Leadership

Four needs of a man

  • Honor
  • Sex
  • Fellowship
  • Domestic support

3. I am committed to ROMANCE.

Song of Solomon 5:1-2 (NLT) — 1 I have entered my garden, my treasure, my bride! I gather myrrh with my spices and eat honeycomb with my honey. I drink wine with my milk. Oh, lover and beloved, eat and drink! Yes, drink deeply of your love! 2 I slept, but my heart was awake, when I heard my lover knocking and calling: “Open to me, my treasure, my darling, my dove, my perfect one.”

Four things that define romance

  • Romance is private time with focused attention: “I have entered my garden.”
  • Romance is passionate embrace: “Yes, drink deeply of your love.”
  • Romance is mindfulness: “I slept, but my heart was awake.”
  • Romance is pursuit: “Open to me.”

Remember: Romance is the language of desire. Lack of romance is the language of rejection.

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